“Games aren’t won on paper any more than wars are. Life doesn’t just happen on paper. It happens when we’re in the arena, being tested, and making sure that we don’t give in and we don’t give up.” ~ Chad Hennings
You
may cringe at the word but the truth is failure is simply as part of life. The fear of failure hinders many people from achieving
their true potential. However, failure
is never truly failure unless you stop trying.
So
what do we do when faced with real life situations? What do we do when we really fail? Simple, accept it, inspect it, and then move on.
Failures are what we make of them, and if we ‘keep our head in the game’
and make it a learning experience, then were on the right track to failing FORWARD[1].
The
hardest part, for me, is the realization that I have failed. It can be devastating because, it’s a stark
reminder that I am human. But what can
be even more devastating is, avoiding the truth and continuing in our sophistic
(flawed) ways. So we must first accept
that we have failed.
Once
we know that we have failed, it’s important to review why we failed and how we
can improve. This is how we grow from
our failures. This can be done by first
understanding fully how and where we failed – the why should make itself apparent. But then, by re-envisioning other possible
approaches that may have led to more successful results we can truly grow from
the experience.
Then
we move on. Move on? How can we move on; we just failed?
My High School Cross Country coach had a saying, “When the going gets
tough the tough get going.” Sometimes failures
in life can be quite depressing. But
there is hope; there are new opportunities new challenges so we must chose not to be stagnate but strive
to fulfill our true potentials, we must be persistent, we must press on.
I you have never failed, you have
never tried; if you have never tried, you can never succeed. Success comes only at the price of
persistence.
Sincerely,
--
“15
But if serving the LORD seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves
this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your ancestors served beyond the
Euphrates, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you are living. But
as for me and my household, we will serve the LORD.” ~ NIV Joshua
24:15
Cited:
1.
Maxwell, John C. Failing Forward:
Turning Mistakes into Stepping-stones for Success. Nashville, TN: Thomas
Nelson, 2000. Print.
This a wonderful book, which I would
like to read in the near future. And I would highly recommend it to the reader!
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