“Mindset fuels action and action fuels results.” ~ Heather Woodey
The
most powerful asset to advance in life is focus, where
your focus lies there your understanding will be also. Focus can make or break you, it can drive you
to success or it can drive you up a wall.
Focus affects every part of your mental outlook, of your approach to
problems and conflict. Napoleon
Hill once said, “What the mind can conceive, it can
achieve.” That, which you focus
on, you naturally tend towards.
Focus,
what do you focus on? Is it worth your
time? Yes it may have vital implications
but can you affect it? Reinhold Niebuhr
faced this dichotomy of focus and prayed something profound, “God, grant
me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change. Courage to change the things I can. And wisdom to know the difference.” What you can change, by all means change;
but what you cannot change, do not waste your time worrying about. The power of focus is the most common,
untapped resource available to those who strive toward their true potentials,
however even when we are not ‘focusing’ we are still priming.
Priming
is literally the act of preparation, how we prime can
greatly affect how we act. New York
University Psychologist, John Bargh conducted a series of experiments on the
notion of priming[1]. In one experiment
from the series, Undergraduate students
were given unique ‘scrambled-sentence tests’, one type of test contained rude words like disturb, bother,
and intrude, where the other type of test was sprinkled with polite
words like respect, considerate, and yield. In both cases, the subjects thought they were
taking an intelligence test. None of the
subjects picked up on the word trend but it primed them none the less.
After
taking the five-minute test, students were asked to walk down the hall and talk
to the person running the experiment about their next assignment. An actor was strategically engaged in
conversation with the experimenter when the students would arrive. The goal of the experiment was to see how
long it would take students to interrupt.
The
effect was profound, the group primed with rude words
interrupted, on average, after five minutes,
but 82 percent of those primed with polite words never interrupted at all [2]. Carole Harder generalized this
notion by saying, “Everything you let your mind concentrate on will influence
you.”
From
what music we listen to, to what media we watch; the effect of even what we
subconsciously intake is massive. As Mark Batterson put it, “Our minds are
subconsciously primed by everything that is happening all the time.” So if we focus on the good, even in the little
things, it can make a big difference in our attitude and in our character!
By
priming yourself daily, though conscientious focus or subconscious inlets you realign
your mindset which enables you to conquer your goals with wisdom and tact.
Sincerely,
--
“15 But if
serving the LORD seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day
whom you will serve, whether the gods your ancestors served beyond the
Euphrates, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you are living. But
as for me and my household, we will serve the LORD.” ~ NIV Joshua
24:15
Cited:
1.
New York University psychologist John Bargh: Cited in Malcolm Gladwell,
Blink:The Power of Thinking without thinking (New York: Little, Brown and
Company, 2005),53-57
2.
Batterson, Mark. "The Greatest of Them All - Spiritual Priming." The
Circle Maker: Praying Circles around Your Biggest Dreams and Greatest Fears.
Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan, 2011. 153-54. Print.
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